Sex is uncomfortable

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The page you were looking for isn’t here. Check your spelling and try again. And when you bring these feelings that you’re having to this person’s attention, the reaction is instantly defensive. You are accused of being insecure, called a Drama Queen, and made to believe that you’re making mountains out of molehills. Make no mistake about this fact and who exactly is the enemy.

I am so thankful to have found this website and these articles. During weeks or months of silent treatments I of course had a feeling he was with someone else but when I accused him of it he would be offended I could even think such a thing. I, too, had to learn it the hard way. We just don’t seem to want to listen to that nagging voice telling us that something is up and we’re better off running in the opposite direction. Here’s to learning from our mistakes! I have been through two relationships with narcs, unfortunately.

On the date, he tries kissing me litterally within 15 minutes, to which I turn my cheek and he says: it was a test to see if you would respond like a lady and refuse. To which I go: what on earth do you mean, a test? To which he goes: it was just a joke. So litterally, 15 minutes into the date, he showed behaviour my ex always used to show, turning things around on me. FB later on but the conversation once again was turned on me and my behaviour and how men don’t want a woman who is too open too soon and blablabla, the guy knowing nothing about me at all, indirectly accusing me of whatever.